Pdt. Benny Tambunan-Ibu Novi Tambunan and Alpian Hutabarat-Bunga Hutabarat
Alpian Hutabarat. and Bunga Hutabarat
Benny Tambunan & Novi Tambunan
Bunga Roselina at Anyer Beach
Alpian Hutabarat Memimpin diskusi Sekolah Sabat
Alpian Hutabarat & Bunga Roselina Pandiangan
Banner Reatreat GMAHK Jemaat Jambrut

Jumat, 03 Juni 2016

EATING FRUIT ON EMPTY STOMACH

*Eating Fruit on Empty Stomach*

This will open your eyes ! 
Read to the end and then send it on to all on your e-list. 
I just did !

Dr. Stephen Mak treats terminal ill cancer patients by an "un-orthodox" way and many patients recovered.
Before he used solar energy to clear the illnesses of his patients, he believes on natural healing in the body against illnesses. See his article below.
It is one of the strategies to heal cancer. As of late, my success rate in curing cancer is about 80%.
Cancer patients shouldn't die. The cure for cancer is already found - *its in the way we eat fruits.
It is whether you believe it or not.
I am sorry for the hundreds of cancer patients who die under the conventional treatments.

EATING FRUIT
We all think eating fruits means just buying fruits, cutting it and just popping it into our mouths.
It's not as easy as you think. It's important to know how and *when* to eat the fruits.
What is the correct way of eating fruits?

IT MEANS NOT EATING FRUITS AFTER YOUR MEALS!
FRUITS SHOULD BE EATEN ON AN EMPTY STOMACH

If you eat fruits on empty stomach, it will play a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.

FRUIT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FOOD.

Let's say you eat two slices of bread and then a slice of fruit.
The slice of fruit is ready to go straight through the stomach into the intestines, but it is prevented from doing so due to the bread taken before the fruit.
In the meantime the whole meal of bread & fruit rots and ferments and turns to acid.

The minute the fruit comes into contact with the food in the stomach and digestive juices, the entire mass of food begins to spoil.

So please eat your fruits on an *empty stomach* *or before your meals !*
You have heard people complaining :

Every time I eat watermelon I burp, when I eat durian my stomach bloats up, when I eat a banana I feel like running to the toilet, etc.. etc..
Actually all this will not arise if you eat the fruit on an empty stomach.
The fruit mixes with the putrefying of other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat !
Greying hair, balding, nervous outburst and dark circles under the eyes all these will *NOT* *happen if you take fruits on an empty stomach.*
There is no such thing as some fruits, like orange and lemon are acidic, because all fruits become alkaline in our body, according to Dr. Herbert Shelton who did research on this matter.
If you have mastered the correct way of eating fruits, you have the  *SECRET of beauty, longevity, health, energy, happiness and normal weight.*
When you need to drink fruit juice - *drink only  fresh fruit juice,* NOT from the cans, packs or bottles.
Don't even drink juice that has been heated up.
Don't eat cooked fruits because you don't get the nutrients at all.
You only get its taste.
Cooking destroys all the vitamins.
But eating a whole fruit is better than drinking the juice.
If you should drink the fresh fruit juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must let it mix with your saliva before swallowing it.
You can go on a 3-day fruit fast to cleanse or detoxify your body.
Just eat fruits and drink fresh fruit juice throughout the 3 days.
And you will be surprised when your friends tell you how radiant you look !

KIWI fruit
Tiny but mighty.
This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, vitamin E & fiber. Its vitamin C content is twice that of an orange.

APPLE
An apple a day keeps the doctor away?
Although an apple has a low vitamin C content, it has antioxidants & flavonoids which enhances the activity of vitamin C thereby _helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart attack & stroke.

STRAWBERRY
Protective Fruit.
Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits & protect the body from cancer-causing, blood vessel-clogging and free radicals.

ORANGE 
Sweetest medicine.
Taking 2-4 oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent & dissolve kidney stones as well as lessens the risk of colon cancer.

*WATERMELON:*
Coolest thirst quencher. Composed of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione, which helps boost our immune system.
They are also *a key source of lycopene the cancer fighting oxidant.*
Other nutrients found in watermelon are vitamin C & Potassium.

*GUAVA & PAPAYA:*
Top awards for vitamin C. They are the clear winners for their high vitamin C content.
Guava is also rich in fiber, which helps prevent constipation.
Papaya is rich in carotene; this is good for your eyes.

*Drinking COLD water or drinks after a meal = CANCER*
Can you believe this ?
For those who like to drink cold water or cold drinks, this article is applicable to you.
It is nice to have a cup of cold water or cold drinks after a meal.
  • However, the cold water or drinks will solidify the oily stuff that you have just eaten.
  • It will slow down the digestion.
  • Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food.
  • It will line the intestine.
  • Very soon, this will turn into FATS and lead to CANCER !
  • It is best to drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.
  • Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know the better chance we could survive.

A cardiologist says:
if everyone who gets this mail sends it to 10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life.
So lets do it

Sumber : WA Group

Kamis, 02 Juni 2016

KAJIAN PARENTING - AQ

KAJIAN PARENTING 

Kita tidak pernah tahu, anak kita akan terlempar ke bagian bumi mana nanti, maka izinkanlah dia belajar menyelesaikan masalahnya sendiri .

Jangan memainkan semua peran,
  • Ia jadi ibu,
  • Ia jadi koki,
  • Ia jadi tukang cuci.
  • Ia jadi ayah,
  • Ia jadi supir,
  • Ia jadi tukang ledeng,
  • atau yang lainnya

Anda bukan anggota tim SAR!
Anak anda tidak dalam keadaan bahaya. Tidak ada sinyal S.O.S! Jangan selalu memaksa untuk membantu dan memperbaiki semuanya.
  • Anak mengeluh karena mainan puzzlenya tidak bisa nyambung menjadi satu, "Sini...Ayah bantu!".
  • Tutup botol minum sedikit susah dibuka, "Sini...Mama saja".
  • Tali sepatu sulit diikat, "Sini...Ayah ikatkan".
  • Kecipratan sedikit minyak "Sudah sini, Mama aja yang masak".

Kapan anaknya bisa?

Kalau bala bantuan muncul tanpa adanya bencana,
Apa yang terjadi ketika bencana benar-benar datang?

Berikan anak-anak kesempatan untuk menemukan solusi mereka sendiri. Kemampuan menangani stress, Menyelesaikan masalah,
dan mencari solusi, merupakan keterampilan/skill yang wajib dimiliki. Dan skill ini harus dilatih untuk bisa terampil. Skill ini tidak akan muncul begitu saja hanya dengan simsalabim!
Kemampuan menyelesaikan masalah dan bertahan dalam kesulitan tanpa menyerah bisa berdampak sampai puluhan tahun ke depan.

Bukan saja bisa membuat seseorang lulus sekolah tinggi,
tapi juga lulus melewati ujian badai pernikahan dan kehidupannya kelak.
Tampaknya sepele sekarang...
Secara apalah salahnya kita bantu anak?
Tapi jika anda segera bergegas mnyelamatkanny dari segala kesulitan, dia akan menjadi ringkih dan mudah layu.

Sakit sedikit, mengeluh.
Berantem sedikit, minta cerai.
Masalah sedikit, jadi gila.

Jika anda menghabiskan banyak waktu, perhatian, dan uang untuk IQ nya, maka habiskan pula hal yang sama untuk AQ nya.
AQ?
Apa itu?
ADVERSITY QUOTIENT

Menurut Paul G. Stoltz,
AQ adalah kecerdasan menghadapi kesulitan atau hambatan dan kemampuan bertahan dalam berbagai kesulitan hidup dan tantangan yang dialami.

Bukankah kecerdasan ini lebih penting daripada IQ, untuk menghadapi masalah sehari-hari?
Perasaan mampu melewati ujian itu luar biasa nikmatnya.
Bisa menyelesaikan masalah, mulai dari hal yang sederhana sampai yang sulit, membuat diri semakin percaya bahwa meminta tolong hanya dilakukan ketika kita benar2 tidak sanggup lagi.

So, izinkanlah anak anda melewati kesulitan hidup...
Tidak masalah anak mengalami sedikit luka,
sedikit menangis,
sedikit kecewa,
sedikit telat,
dan sedikit kehujanan.
Tahan lidah, tangan dan hati dari memberikan bantuan.
Ajari mereka menangani frustrasi.
Kalau anda selalu jadi ibu peri atau guardian angel,
Apa yang terjadi jika anda tidak bernafas lagi esok hari?
Bisa2 anak anda ikut mati.
Sulit memang untuk tidak mengintervensi,
Ketika melihat anak sendiri susah, sakit dan sedih.
Apalagi menjadi orangtua, insting pertama adalah melindungi 

Jadi melatih AQ ini adalah ujian kita sendiri juga sebagai orangtua.
Tapi sadarilah,
hidup tidaklah mudah,
masalah akan selalu ada.
Dan mereka harus bisa bertahan .
Melewati hujan, badai, dan kesulitan,
yang kadang tidak bisa dihindari.

Selamat merenung...

Sumber : Share dari WA Group